Feelings' Projection - Is It Real?
I didn't think projecting feelings was a real thing. But like many other things I have learnt in past 4 years, it is actually something. And I'm not happy that I'm experiencing these all of a 'sudden'. Why is adulthood so hard? But, I digress. Story time. There once used to be a person in my life. I really liked their soul, I thought. And a feeling similar, for me is rare - well, as rare as only that one time. I literally felt something when I saw them for the first time. And, turned out, how I intuitively reacted was also my brain's reaction when getting to know them. Wow, I hadn't known people could be genuinely this nice. But, you know, 'the more you know'. It seemed like they truly tried to understand me (and everyone around them) and I was doing my best too. But then, time and again, I would get these accusations (comments? self-reflection suggestions? I don't know what the right word is) - of being selfish - at things that first, I ne